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Mom vs. Dad: Upasana questions parenting praise disparity
14 Nov
Summary
- Upasana questioned why fathers get praise for basic parenting.
- She advocates for equal parenting responsibilities at home.
- Societal mindset shifts are crucial for boardroom equality.
Businesswoman Upasana Konidela recently voiced concerns about the disparity in how Indian society views mothers and fathers in parenting. At the CII Partnership Summit 2026 in Visakhapatnam, she pointed out that fathers are often lauded for basic childcare tasks like feeding or diaper changes, while mothers perform similar duties without comparable acknowledgment.
Konidela emphasized that this unequal recognition stems from a deeply ingrained societal mindset that needs urgent change, starting within households. She stated that fathers are not doing a favor but are actively parenting, a role that should be normalized and equally shared. She also suggested that mothers should refrain from over-praising sons for participating in household chores, as this reinforces the idea that such contributions are exceptional rather than standard.
The conversation, which included Andhra Pradesh minister Nara Lokesh, underscored the importance of education and upbringing in fostering gender equality. Konidela believes that early education and consistent parenting practices encouraging shared responsibilities are vital for societal progress. She is the granddaughter of Dr. Prathap C. Reddy, founder of Apollo Hospitals, and wife of actor Ram Charan.
