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Love Knows No Height: Couple Defies Expectations
12 Feb
Summary
- Author felt societal pressure to date only tall men.
- She married a man significantly shorter than her.
- Being with him helped her embrace her own height.

The author recounts her past struggles with societal expectations regarding height differences in relationships, particularly her own desire to date only tall men.
Influenced by fairy tales and a feeling of being 'too tall' growing up, she sought partners who fit a 'tall, dark, and handsome' ideal, even specifying height requirements on dating sites.
Her previous relationships, despite partners being tall, were marked by insecurity and criticism, leading her to re-evaluate her approach to dating.
Meeting Dale online, she was drawn to his personality and humor. Upon their first meeting, she noticed his shorter stature but found herself captivated by his charm and genuine interest.
Their connection deepened, and Dale's respectful and confident nature helped her shed her insecurities about her height.
They married in 2015, and the author, now 40, credits Dale, 54, for helping her embrace her true self and stop trying to 'shrink' herself for others.
She concludes that a partner who is secure in himself encourages his partner to stand tall, highlighting that love truly defies conventional expectations.




