Men's Club: From Grief to 7,000 Weekly Support

In 2016, a small group of nine men in Halifax initiated a support network that has since expanded dramatically. This initiative, Andy's Man Club, was founded in memory of Andrew Roberts, who died by suicide at 23. His family, including his mother Elaine Roberts and brother-in-law Luke Ambler, sought to prevent similar tragedies.

Andy's Man Club provides informal, judgment-free spaces for men to discuss their challenges. This peer-support charity now operates over 350 community groups in England, Scotland, and Wales, alongside online sessions, collectively supporting around 7,000 men weekly. The meetings are free, confidential, and accessible without registration or referral.

Volunteers, many of whom initially sought support, now help others, creating a cycle of mutual aid. Early attendee Oliver Vikse found the open, honest environment transformative after experiencing homelessness and loss. The #ItsOkayToTalk campaign, spearheaded by Ambler, has engaged over 100 million people worldwide, confronting the stigma surrounding men seeking help.

Statistics from 2024 indicate male suicide in England and Wales is approximately three times more common than female suicide. Andy's Man Club prioritizes accessible, familiar support to counter this imbalance. Elaine Roberts emphasizes the value of face-to-face interaction in an increasingly digital world, fostering connections and shared understanding.

Recognized with a national award, the charity's impact is significant. A commemorative mural in Leeds celebrates a decade of its work. From its humble beginnings, Andy's Man Club continues its mission to make talking, support, and connection easier for men, preventing crises before they escalate.