Shirley Ballas: Mum's harsh lessons fueled dance star

Shirley Ballas, the decorated ballroom dancer and Strictly Come Dancing judge, often draws inspiration from her mother, Audrey. Born in Wallasey in 1960, Ballas's journey into dance began at seven. Her mother, a single parent after divorcing when Shirley was two, worked multiple jobs to afford dance classes, shoes, and competitions. This dedication fostered a strong work ethic in Ballas, who left home at 14 to pursue her dance dreams.

Audrey, who was diagnosed with COPD in 2022, continues to smoke despite her lung condition. She remains a resilient figure, often sharing blunt advice and maintaining her independence. Ballas moved back in with her mother, and they now live together in London. Audrey's support was crucial, even helping care for Ballas's son so she could continue working.

Ballas experienced bullying in the male-dominated dance industry before joining Strictly. Her mother's influence, particularly her lessons on resilience and organization, helped her navigate challenges. Audrey expressed pride in her daughter, famously stating, "I guess I backed the right horse."