Reese Witherspoon Blames Lack of Rom-Coms for Modern Dating Woes

According to Reese Witherspoon, the lack of romantic comedy movies and TV shows in recent years is a key factor behind the challenges in modern dating. In an interview on the "Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard" podcast recorded in late 2025, Witherspoon explained that these types of films and shows used to teach important social dynamics, particularly for younger viewers.

However, Witherspoon notes there has been a "decline in the making of rom-coms" over the past 10-15 years, coinciding with the rise of the internet and social media. She believes this shift has deprived many people, especially the younger generation, of learning crucial relationship skills from iconic on-screen couples like Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan.

Witherspoon also pointed to the growing pickiness and unrealistic standards in today's dating culture. She encouraged people to do some self-reflection and assess whether their own qualities match the high expectations they have for potential partners. "I always say to people, the young people dating - you're looking for a 10, but are you a 10," Witherspoon remarked.

Overall, the acclaimed actress believes the lack of relatable romantic comedies has contributed to a gap in how people, especially the youth, learn about dating and relationships. She hopes a resurgence of these types of movies and shows could help address the challenges facing modern dating.