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From Shame to Softness: Reclaiming Teenage K-Pop Fandom
18 Mar
Summary
- Teenage fandom for K-pop often involved hiding obsessions due to societal ridicule.
- Fandom provided solace and a coping mechanism during a lonely university move.
- Interest evolved into creativity and friendships, offering a healthier escape.
A reflective piece explores the evolution of teenage fandom from shame to self-acceptance. The author recalls hiding her intense K-pop obsession, especially with BTS, fearing mockery. This private world offered a necessary refuge and connection during a difficult transition to university life alone.
The intense engagement with BTS content, including variety shows and music videos, served as a healthy distraction from loneliness and the challenges of starting over in a new city. It provided a sense of purpose and resilience.
What began as a private escape eventually fostered creativity and led to genuine friendships, often sparked by shared fandom references. The author now views this past obsession with softness, appreciating its role in personal development and coping strategies.
