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J.Lo's Divorce Revelation: 'Figure Yourself Out'
16 Jun
Summary
- Lopez reflected on post-divorce self-discovery, canceling her tour.
- She questioned her own behavior contributing to marriage failures.
- Lopez recognized patterns and committed to self-love.

Jennifer Lopez recently discussed a significant period of self-discovery that followed her divorce from ex-husband Ben Affleck. Speaking on the 'Smartless' podcast, Lopez, 56, disclosed that she canceled her tour to confront her own issues, stating, "You need f***ing figure yourself out." This introspection led her to examine her role in the marriage's dissolution.
Lopez, 53, reflected on identifying specific patterns in her life that previously led to unhappiness. She recounted looking back at her younger self and urging herself to provide self-love rather than seeking it externally. Her sister, Lynda Lopez, also advised her to be her own "keeper," a sentiment Lopez now views as crucial pieces of her personal journey.
As she navigates being an empty nester with her twins Max and Emme, who recently graduated high school, Lopez acknowledges the emotional shift. She shared on 'Watch What Happens Live With Andy Cohen' that the trio has always been a core unit. When asked about new relationships, Lopez humorously suggested that anyone truly interested would find a way to connect with her directly.