Ballerina Sara Mearns Finds Her Soulmate, Announces Engagement

New York City Ballet principal dancer Sara Mearns, 40, joyfully announced her engagement to art organization director and writer Gavin Kelley, 50. Mearns described Kelley as her soulmate, expressing deep gratitude for finding him after dedicating 37 of her 40 years to dance.

Their long-term relationship has been kept private, though Mearns shared a moment of their affection during the 2025 holiday season. She posted a photo of Kelley gifting her flowers after a performance of The Nutcracker.

This announcement coincides with Mearns's candid sharing about her journey with nerve hearing loss. She revealed that the 2025 holiday season marked her first time performing The Nutcracker with hearing aids.

Mearns, a Phonak ambassador, has become an advocate for others with hearing impairments. She shared an emotional encounter with a mother whose son was inspired by her openness, assuring them that hearing loss need not be a barrier to achieving their dreams.

Reflecting on her experience, Mearns noted the profound impact of hearing aids on her performance and mental health. She recalled an overwhelming yet positive experience wearing them for the first time during a performance in Copenhagen in August 2025, where she could clearly hear every instrument and stage cue, marking a significant new chapter.