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AI Replaces Real Connection, Hinge CEO Warns
28 Mar
Summary
- Young people use AI for conversations they don't want to burden friends with.
- AI absorbs vulnerable moments that build intimacy and human connection.
- Gen Z spends significantly less time in physical company of others.

Hinge CEO Jackie Jantos observes that artificial intelligence is altering human connection by absorbing vulnerable moments that foster intimacy.
Young people, particularly Gen Z, are increasingly turning to AI for conversations they deem burdensome for friends. This trend, exacerbated by reduced in-person social interaction, is seen as a factor in the growing loneliness crisis. A focus group in London revealed young adults using AI for conversations, a habit that bypasses the development of relational competence.
Data indicates Gen Z spends substantially less time socializing in person compared to previous generations. This shift means avoidance of discomfort through technology, like AI chatbots, replaces opportunities to build essential social skills. Experts suggest this reliance on AI for low-stakes interactions may prevent individuals from developing the resilience needed for messy, long-term relationships.
While AI can mimic empathetic behaviors, it lacks genuine reciprocity and the shared history fundamental to human bonds. Jantos' company, Hinge, aims to counteract this by intentionally incorporating friction and slowing down user interactions, fostering more authentic connections. Their social impact program funds offline activities to rebuild confidence in face-to-face interactions.