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Restaurant Apologizes for Offensive Birthday Cake Message
25 Aug
Summary
- Customer received a birthday cake with an offensive message.
- Restaurant cited a ticketing process misunderstanding for the error.
- The patron has no plans to return to the restaurant.

A New Jersey restaurant, Blu On The Hudson in Weehawken, has issued a sincere apology following an incident on June 20, 2026, where a birthday cake was delivered to a customer with an offensive message. The cake, intended for Antonia Sinibaldi's 29th birthday, bore the inscription "Happy Birthday wheel chair," which deeply upset her and her party. Sinibaldi, who has been a quadriplegic since a car crash at age 2, found the message hurtful and unnecessary.
The restaurant explained the message resulted from a ticketing process misunderstanding, where "wheelchair" was mistakenly used as a table reference and written on the plate. They stressed there was no malicious intent but acknowledged the deeply hurtful nature of the mistake. The establishment claims to have revisited its procedures to prevent future occurrences.
However, Sinibaldi reported that management was dismissive when the issue was raised on the night of the incident, offering only more drinks. She stated that no respectful explanation was provided at the time. While the restaurant claims to have attempted to contact Sinibaldi unsuccessfully, she has expressed no intention of returning to Blu On The Hudson.