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Italian Waitress Slams Bill Splitting Habits
27 Nov
Summary
- Waitress finds individual bill splitting 'annoying' and 'weird'.
- Italian 'alla romana' method divides bills equally among diners.
- Debate sparks over fairness during Australia's cost of living crisis.

A Melbourne-based Italian waitress has voiced her surprise at the common Australian practice of splitting restaurant bills by individual orders. She describes the meticulous calculation of who consumed what as an 'annoying' habit, a stark contrast to the Italian approach known as 'alla romana'. This method involves dividing the total bill equally among all diners at the table, a practice she believes fosters a more communal and balanced dining experience among friends.
The waitress explained that the 'alla romana' style accounts for varying consumption patterns, such as one person drinking more while another drives. Over multiple dining occasions with the same group, these differences naturally even out. She suggests that focusing on exact individual costs can feel petty, especially when dining with people you regularly socialize with, arguing that such fairness is achieved organically over time.
Her sentiment has sparked a lively debate online, with many Australians defending their preference for paying only for what they consumed, particularly given the current cost of living pressures. Opponents of the Italian method argue that it can be unfair if some individuals order significantly more expensive items. However, fellow Italians and some diners agree with the waitress, favoring the simplicity and camaraderie of an evenly split bill.




