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Adoption Secret: Adoptive Mom Kept Contact for 17 Years
6 May
Summary
- Adoptive mother secretly wrote to birth mother for 17 years.
- Daughter learned of the contact just before turning 18.
- Families reunited and formed strong bonds.

Alicia Mae Holloway's adoption story gained significant attention after it went viral. Her adoptive mother had secretly sent letters to Holloway's biological mother every six months for nearly two decades, sharing updates on Holloway's life. This quiet correspondence continued until Holloway was just days away from her 18th birthday.
Upon learning of this secret connection, Holloway's perspective on the relationships between the two women in her life transformed. Her adoptive parents had always been open about her adoption, using analogies like "The Jungle Book" to help her understand. While she always felt secure, questions about her biological parents surfaced as she grew older.
The closed nature of her adoption meant limited information was available. However, in 2014, before her 18th birthday, Holloway learned her birth mother's name was Beth. A meeting was arranged, and on the day before her birthday, they met for lunch in Pennsylvania.
During their conversation, Holloway discovered her biological mother had told relatives she had been stillborn, explaining why there was no search. Holloway, however, expressed no resentment, understanding her birth mother was doing her best. She also later reconnected with her biological father during the pandemic and has since formed close relationships with him and her biological siblings.