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Stephen Fry Gasps at Direct Question on Sex Life
8 Apr
Summary
- Stephen Fry was asked a direct personal question about his sex life.
- The interviewers were neurodivergent individuals on ITV's The Assembly.
- Fry found the frankness more intense than Celebrity Traitors.

Stephen Fry experienced a moment of surprise on ITV's "The Assembly" when he was asked a very direct and personal question about his sex life with his husband, Elliott Spencer. The interviewers, who are autistic, neurodivergent, and/or have learning disabilities, were noted for their unfiltered approach.
Fry, 68, who has been open about his sexuality since the late 1980s and married Spencer in 2015, admitted that the frankness of the questioning was more intense than his experience on "Celebrity Traitors." He found the genuine curiosity and lack of journalistic pretense unique.
Reflecting on his past, Fry recalled that being gay felt like a "horror inside him" during his teenage years and that he was often mocked for his celibacy before coming to terms with his identity. He also shared insights into his decade-long marriage to Spencer, highlighting cheerfulness and mutual understanding of differences as crucial to their relationship's success, despite a 30-year age gap.
Fry also discussed his views on longevity, expressing a desire not to outlive his friends and family, stating he would "hate to be that lonely" if he were to live past 100.