Paulson & Taylor: Love Without a License

Sarah Paulson has expressed that the concept of marriage itself causes her anxiety. She revealed on the Dear Chelsea podcast that the contractual nature of marriage gives her 'heebie-jeebies,' prioritizing personal freedom and independence within her long-term relationship with Holland Taylor.

Paulson, who will mark 12 years with Taylor in January, clarified that her feelings are not about distance but maintaining a sense of self. She feels deeply connected to Taylor and considers herself married to her, despite the absence of a legal ceremony. They both avoid the term 'wife,' finding it suggests ownership.

In a previous May 2024 interview on the Smartless podcast, Paulson attributed the success of their relationship, which began in 2015 after meeting in 2005, to not living together. This allows them to spend time together intentionally while preserving individual autonomy.