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Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz's Intimate Love Letters Unveiled
6 Nov
Summary
- Couple's letters from early marriage compiled in new book by daughter
- Letters range from flirtatious to mundane, reflecting their complex relationship
- Lucie Arnaz surprised by her parents' dedication to preserving the letters
In November 2025, a new book titled "Lucy & Desi: The Love Letters" will offer a unique perspective on the marriage of iconic television stars Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz. The book, compiled by their daughter Lucie Arnaz, features the couple's personal letters written during the early years of their 20-year marriage, when Desi was serving in the U.S. Army.
The letters, which range from flirtatious to mundane, provide a rare, behind-the-scenes look at the powerhouse duo's relationship. Some detail Lucy's efforts to find a new refrigerator for her mother-in-law during the war, while others reveal the pangs of jealousy that came with their new romance. In one letter, Lucy wrote to Desi, "I think of you instantly upon waking- all day - all nite - until I go to sleep again."
Lucie Arnaz, the first child of Lucy and Desi, was born just months before the debut of their hit sitcom, "I Love Lucy," in 1951. She expressed surprise not at the content of the letters, but at the fact that her parents had carefully preserved them over the years. "It wasn't unusual that there were letters that they wrote to each other, but that she kept both of them," Lucie said. "That's what's so incredible to me.... And they were so beautifully kept."
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Lucy and Desi's relationship was well-documented as tumultuous, marked by Desi's struggles with alcohol and reported affairs. They even briefly divorced before remarrying, but their bond persisted long after their official separation in 1960. Lucie describes their love as "youthful, passionate, tempestuous, vulnerable" and "complicated," with the last years of their marriage being "uncomfortable and very hard for them both."
Despite the challenges, Lucie believes her parents remained connected in a "weird way" even after remarrying other people. "They respected each other's marriages and each other's partners as something that made more sense, maybe -- Maybe those people were better for them at this particular time in their life, but I don't think it was ever as passionate as it was with just the two of them."
