Jennifer Lopez's Twins Inspired Her to Become a More Present Parent

Jennifer Lopez, the acclaimed actress and singer, has opened up about a pivotal moment that reshaped her approach to parenting. In an interview on the Howard Stern Show on October 15, 2025, the 56-year-old star discussed a life-changing conversation she had with her 17-year-old twins, Maximilian "Max" David Muniz and Emme Maribel Muniz, during the COVID-19 pandemic.

According to Lopez, when her children were preteens, they confronted her about not being a "regular mom" who was present for daily activities like drop-offs and pick-ups. This "wake-up call" made the actress realize how much her twins needed her constant presence, rather than just providing them with a comfortable lifestyle.

The revelation led Lopez to reevaluate her priorities and make her children her top focus. She now ensures that her work commitments do not interfere with her ability to be there for Max and Emme. Lopez's longtime manager, Benny Medina, respects her decision to put family first, understanding that her kids are her absolute priority.

The actress credits this pivotal conversation with her twins for helping them develop the "best relationship now." She is determined to prove her unwavering love through her actions and availability, rather than just material provisions.