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Javed Akhtar Shares Unconventional Litmus Test for Lasting Marriages
1 Oct, 2025
Summary
- Javed Akhtar and Shabana Azmi have been married for over 40 years
- Akhtar reveals interior decoration as the ultimate test of a marriage's strength
- Disagreements over home design choices can determine if a marriage will last

According to veteran lyricist and writer Javed Akhtar, the key to measuring the strength and stability of a marriage lies not in grand gestures or solemn vows, but in something far more unexpected - interior decoration. Speaking at a recent Performing Arts Festival, Akhtar, who has been married to acclaimed actress Shabana Azmi for over 40 years, left the audience in stitches with his witty take on marriage's ultimate litmus test.
Akhtar explained that when a couple undertakes the task of designing their home, the inevitable disagreements that arise over even the simplest choices, such as the color of a carpet or the shade of curtains, can reveal the true mettle of their relationship. "There's often disagreement about everything, and there's no way to figure out which is right. Everyone has their own point of view," he said. Akhtar believes that if a marriage can overcome the "agni pareeksha" (trial by fire) of interior decoration, then it is destined to last.
The renowned lyricist's insights shed light on the often-overlooked challenges that even the strongest couples face, and how the ability to navigate these challenges can be a true measure of a marriage's strength and stability.