Fran Drescher & Ex-Husband: A Blueprint for Happy Divorce

Actress Fran Drescher made a striking appearance at the New York City Ballet Fall Gala held at Lincoln Center. She was accompanied by her ex-husband, Peter Marc Jacobson, with whom she co-created the beloved '90s series, The Nanny.

Drescher, who is in her 60s, showcased a youthful radiance and discussed her approach to well-being with Verywell Health. She highlighted stress management as a vital component of aging gracefully, noting its significant impact on her immune system and overall health.

She detailed her coping mechanisms for stress, including decompressing, taking breaks, and appreciating nature through walks. This mindful approach helps her avoid illness triggered by stress.

Her ex-husband, Peter Marc Jacobson, appeared equally dapper at the event. The former couple, married for 21 years before separating in 1999, have maintained a strong friendship after Jacobson came out as gay in 2001.

They first met in high school and married at 21. Drescher shared that while their marriage wasn't destined to last, their connection was meant for something else. They dedicated significant effort to their divorce, mirroring the commitment they had to their marriage, which resulted in their current status as best friends.

Drescher previously married scientist Shiva Ayyadurai in 2014, but they divorced two years later. As of 2026, she expressed contentment with her single life and her fulfilled relationship with Jacobson, appreciating her independence and the unique bond they share.

She characterized their relationship as that of 'soulmates,' successfully achieving a state of being 'happily divorced' and having reinvented their connection to exist on a different plane in their lives.