Queer Coming-of-Age: Consent Explored on NZ Beach

Director Paloma Schneideman's debut feature, 'Big Girls Don't Cry,' is a sensitive exploration of consent and queerness. The film delves into the 'tricky space' between consent and non-consent, reflecting on experiences many had to navigate. Its arrival in early 2000s New Zealand depicts a time of dial-up internet and limited avenues for queer youth. Since its February 2026 debut at Sundance, the film has achieved significant international recognition. It won the Grand Prix at the Nouvelle Vagues film festival and was showcased at major festivals like SXSW and BFI Flare. Critics have lauded its 'rigorous, queer coming of age' narrative and its powerful sense of place. Ahead of its New Zealand and US release on October 8 and 9, 2026, Schneideman expresses gratitude for its audience connection. Schneideman developed the film during Jane Campion's Wave in the Ocean film school, benefiting from mentorship. She utilized a 'body gauge' to ensure authenticity, leading to many sleepless nights refining scenes. The director also hints at future projects, planning an 'anti-romance' exploring lost love's wounds.