Bethenny: Bravo 'Girl Code' is Dead!

Bethenny Frankel is weighing in on the recent romance between The Real Housewives of New York City alum Amanda Batula and West Wilson. Frankel expressed that fans might be overreacting slightly to the confirmation of their relationship, stating that consenting adults should be free to date.

While Batula is not currently married, she is still legally wed to her estranged husband, Kyle Cooke, whom she announced a separation from in January. The new relationship also involves existing emotional complexities, as Batula's close friend, Ciara Miller, previously dated Wilson for several months before their breakup in 2023.

Frankel shared her perspective at the Fashion Trust U.S. Awards 2026 in Los Angeles, asserting that the drama surrounding the hookup is excessive. She articulated that the concept of a 'girl code' is non-existent on reality television, particularly when fueled by alcohol and provocative attire, and urged the public to adopt a more relaxed stance on the matter.