Bell & Shepard's Nanny: From Babysitter to 'Third Wheel'

Monica Padman, the 38-year-old co-host of Dax Shepard's Armchair Expert podcast, has evolved from a nanny to a close confidante of Kristen Bell and Shepard. Originally from Georgia, Padman moved to Los Angeles in 2011 and began working for the couple as a nanny for their two daughters. Over the years, she transitioned to personal assistant and speech writer for Bell.

Padman has joked about being in a "three-way marriage" with Bell and Shepard, a sentiment echoed by Shepard on talk shows. She lives just down the street from the couple and is deeply involved in their lives and the podcast, which boasts an estimated 20 million monthly listeners and a significant distribution deal. Her close relationship with the couple has led some friends to express concerns about its healthiness for Padman.

Despite her integral role and close bonds, Padman reportedly tries to remain neutral during Bell and Shepard's frequent arguments. The couple, together since 2007, are known for their open discussions about their relationship dynamics, including past controversies and anniversary posts that have drawn criticism. Padman herself has reflected on her personal life, including her egg-freezing journey, and navigating boundaries in her professional and personal relationships.